Hello everyone, I haven’t posted much recently because things have been rather calm regarding my chastity routine. I’ve spent some days locked up, but mostly stay unlocked at night (since that’s what my wife likes) and on other days operate on the honor system. We had a lovely session last Sunday with both of us achieving great orgasms…hers from me going down on her, and mine while inside her. The reason for such a wonderful week is that she allowed me to perform oral sex three times this time around; each occasion resulted in a nice vocal orgasm for her, and apart from Sunday, she gently mentioned she’d prefer I hold back my ejaculation. It wasn’t harsh at all, just letting me know she would rather I wait than cum immediately. So I’m feeling quite aroused (in a good way) and thrilled that she seems to be growing more comfortable with the idea of me waiting while still enjoying her orgasm. This has been somewhat challenging for her occasionally. I feel like she is beginning to truly grasp that although, naturally, I enjoy ejaculating, I genuinely DO want our sexual connection to revolve around her pleasure rather than mine. There have been some ups and downs in getting her on board with this concept, but this week, I believe she might be starting to embrace the “your happiness is my happiness” philosophy I wish to make more central to our sex life. Time will reveal if we are making progress there, which I think we are, and as you can see, I’m really excited about it! Just wanted to share with the community.
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