I guess this is a good spot for me to introduce myself, even though I’ve been around the various threads here since my girlfriend and I first discovered the concept of chastity about six months ago. I finished college last year and luckily landed a great position at a think tank focusing on political matters. My partner of three years also graduated and found success in her career too. I’m 25, and she’s just a few months younger than me; we’re both good-looking and fit, but quite different from each other. People say opposites attract, and that definitely holds true for us.
We first tried chastity to add some excitement to our sex life. She got me silk scarves for Christmas, which marked our initial foray into “kink”. Over time, I realized I wasn’t getting as much sex as she wanted, so one day I stumbled upon male “chastity”, “female lead relationships”, and “femdom” online. I first saw a thread about wives keeping their husbands in chastity; at the time, my only memory of chastity was from that Monty Python sketch!:D When I brought up this “weird” device to her, she immediately said “order one now”, and we were off! I picked a CB6000 on Amazon, and when it arrived, we were both thrilled about our new adventure. The downside was that after two days of frustration, I realized I could still pull out if I really wanted to get relief, so I admitted this to her openly. We tried several accessories from locked4her, but none kept me completely secure. As she researched more, bondage came into the picture; she ordered hand and leg cuffs, a small ball gag, an enema kit, a strap-on with various dildos, a crop, a whip, several butt plugs, and plenty of lube. She also started buying lots of rope.
As I dug deeper into this new world for us, I found adult diapers—specifically Abri-Forms—and told her about them. At first, she wasn’t keen on the idea, so we discussed why they’d even be useful. One day, I think she just told me to order them, which I did; 14 M4 X PLUS were on their way…when I mentioned it to her later, she was furious! I didn’t mind much at all, thinking a diaper wouldn’t be so bad… but she insisted that since I made the mistake of ordering them, I would have to use them. Well, as we started the process, she wanted to “punish” me for buying these diapers. So every day after work, I’d get placed into a diaper with either a suppository or half a bottle of sodium citrate (THAT STUFF IS HELL) and be forced to do extra chores, cook dinner, and spend the evening in a full diaper.
Soon she warmed up to the idea and kept ordering more. I wasn’t crazy about sitting in my own mess, but more diapers arrived along with locking plastic panties, and she even sewed a huge cloth diaper (she’s an excellent sewer) which became my “night time diaper”. Most evenings I was plugged or taken using the strap-on; this shifted her attitude, and her controlling side really kicked into high gear.
Chastity lasted 2 weeks without fail, and that was it for now; the lifestyle mostly became me doing chores in a diaper, always locked up, occasionally used with the strap-on. The first time she did this full force, she loved the experience (I hated it); the feeling of power she had seemed almost orgasmic to her. Sadly, the cheap CB6000 split, and no amount of epoxy could fix it, so we threw it away. She knew she wanted to continue the journey, but nothing was quite clicking yet; she didn’t fully “get it” just then. This changed when I showed her mobico’s thread “The real feeling of chastity”. She became absorbed in the story and started seeing what chastity is really about: control. It wasn’t just about doing chores; it was about truly developing your man into a “slave”. Now, this isn’t true for everyone, but the story consumed us both. She began reading more articles to deepen her knowledge, keeping a journal full of ideas for when we would restart our chastity journey. She continued reading articles on ownership, punishment, diaper usage, and domination, as well as other women’s successful accounts of transforming their men. She was excited, to say the least.
We ordered a Jail Bird from Mature Metal; it is 1 3/4 inches long with a security screw. After one round of back-and-forth adjustments, the device has been 100% secure as of yesterday. She’s been preparing for this journey: we have over 250 Abri Form M4 XPLUS diapers, lots of suppositories, more pink pairs of plastic panties for my “day time diapers” (which she said will soon be part of my attire), and a large 2-inch locking ball gag plus a posture collar on the way. We bought a house together and are closing next week, so she has stated we will “get into full swing” after settling in. To be honest, I’m anxious to see if she actually stays committed, yet nervous at the same time.
This thread will document our journey. I can’t tell you exactly what’s in store, but I know she’ll be seeking advice from other female dominants as we go along. I promise I’ll update this daily when I can, hoping to give back to this community what mobico gave us; an amazing adventure… long as Im not chained to the floor (she already bought floor and wall mounts for the new house:spank:). The lock on the Jail Bird snapped closed yesterday permanently (I didn’t even get one last round of sex or a chance to pull out:mad:) and she stated my first stint will be for three months, with June 27th as the release date. We’re excited about this adventure, and we’re eager to share it.
DB