A while back, my husband showed interest in wearing a chastity device multiple times. I plan to surprise him with it soon. But I realize that even though he has said before that he wanted this, I need him to understand it isn’t merely about sex or role-playing. It must be done properly if we are going forward with it. That means he needs to prioritize my needs and such… He is a very alpha male, so ‘breaking’ him will require effort. Do you have any advice on how to show him from the start that this is how things will be? I need tips because dominating doesn’t come naturally to me. Thanks for any guidance on the first week (which should be the toughest)?
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