Female led relationships discussion

I wasn’t quite sure how to word it so people would notice. During a private conversation with someone, we were discussing methods of keeping men in chastity. My husband and I have struggled with Cock Cages (CBs), including an experience that was pretty painful for him. Because of this, I’ve leaned more toward the older techniques I used before CBs became popular to keep his chastity. Let me clarify: I trust my husband completely, but I really enjoy knowing he is locked up and can’t slip out without me being aware of it. I label all his underwear with “Property of…” and sometimes write other notes on the waistband too. Things like “Out of order” or “Do not use.” Essentially, those underpants serve as his chastity belt. But let’s talk about how I actually enforce this rule. When I’ve kept him in denial for a month or longer—which is what I’m doing again now—a month plus and likely more—I always stick to a straightforward method. At the one-month point, every time he goes to the bathroom during the day, I wait and look at his urine in the toilet bowl before he flushes. He knows that by the end of the month, there should be clear signs of semen mixed with his urine. If it’s not there, I’ll know for sure he didn’t last a full month without ejaculating. After that first check, I just keep doing them daily. There is no way for him to get relief and fake the results because I am watching right then. He has never cheated on me, and if he did, I would simply remove the thing he wants most from his life. I’d say we are finished with this whole chastity arrangement and ask that he stop coming to me when he needs release. That strikes at the heart of what he truly desires deep down. As mentioned, he has remained faithful. It might sound strange, but I believe my approach works better than any mechanical CB. You just need to check the toilet bowl once a day (you do have to wait until that first month of denial is mostly over). It’s an escape-proof system. He could potentially wiggle his penis out of some types of cages, masturbate, and put it back in place. Actually, he could even manage this with a CB-6000 if he chose to. But my traditional methods are impossible for him to bypass.