Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I was mulling over several discussions regarding fem dom dynamics, cuckolding, and how orgasm control works with denial, and I wanted to hear everyone’s take. If you are (or were) a cuckold, would it be preferable or less so if your wife decided to deny you intercourse entirely, or let you have penetration for just a few strokes without an orgasm, simply as a reminder of what you’re missing? If you are (were) the wife of a cuckold, would you prefer denying him completely or enjoying the tease that reminds him how wonderful intercourse feels? Do you want him to dwell on what you give to other men while withholding it from him? As a cuckold, do you find it easier to have orgasms denied altogether, or is being allowed to cum occasionally better? If the denial was total, would it be simpler to accept and try to forget than to constantly wonder if you got your release and end up disappointed every time you didn’t? When acting as a cuckold, would you prefer hearing “That’s the last time you get to fuck me” or “That’s the last time you get to cum,” allowing you to accept your fate and move on, rather than being told repeatedly, “No, you don’t get to today?” If your wife controls your orgasms, is it better or worse to know exactly when you’ll be allowed to cum (like a scheduled event), versus having the timing be random based on her whim or other factors? Thanks for sharing your thoughts.