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Hello everyone, My bitch (bitchslavetim) and I joined the mansion today. One of his orders is to keep his journal updated and spill all! All this began with a thing for being tied up or pinned down… We purchased the CB3000 almost a year ago and found it very exciting. I had never even heard of it until my bitch mentioned it to me as one of his fantasies one day. He did not want to tell me as he was embarrassed but I had basically asked him for a list of all his fantasies and over time I had completed them all. He even dressed in womans clothes which I found a bit daunting at first. For the record, he did some of my fantasies too. For example he turned up one night in full fireman outfit he had hired, AND another night as a soldier! Sexy! He then had to research for ideas of what to ask me to do for him as he had run out of things to ask for, this is where the CB3000 came in. We were unsure at first, I mean, 100 is a lot of money to put into something we were unsure of but what the heck we (he) bought one anyway. On and off for two weeks my bitch wore it before the novelty had worn off. During that time it was great! I had all my chores done, he went down on me whenever I wanted and I lived the high life, Or should I say, he did! All this was for him, he got turned on by it all not me. I did it to please him. I found I was ‘having’ to behave and sound sexy and domineering all the time which became a chore. I was constantly on demand to make an order to him so he would get turned on. My bitch lives away during the week so I’d send pictures all the time and make orders…over the distance it did not work…because bitchslavetim began to refuse to do what I said if we fell out. I felt there was no point in doing it if he was picking and choosing when to wear it. Two weeks later and that was it. The small black penis shaped piece of plastic back in the box…with the aim of trying again another day, after all, it was fun while it lasted (mainly for him). That is, until recently. I became fed up with my bitch’s constant sulking and whining about life and knew the only way he ever snapped out of it was when I took control and became little miss controlling… “Get down on your knees!” I would say to him. “Go down on me” … “Yes Liz” was always the reply when I made an order. This behaviour started off as light, then increasingly became much more so when we found ourselves getting even more extreme yet still searching for other ideas contantly. I wanted to try out the female chastity belt so we purchased one. When the plain white box arrived with a pink leather belt containing two padlocks and six keys (I only told him about four) I was thrilled! We had a role reversal for a week or so where he would be in charge. We both decided that although it was nice to try out, I was indeed destined to be the boss! He agreed! My bitch said he wanted to go three weeks without an orgasm and would like me to try too. I lasted two days. I wanted him to still wait! So out came the cage again and after much fiddling with spacers and ring sizes (oh the pain of watching him decide which one is correct!) on it went..and that was that. He lasted three weeks without an orgasm HOWEVER he has had it so easy because he gets let out for his weekly climbing activites. As I said before, we don’t see each other during the week so to make sure he is still wearing his cage I randomly text him at any time no matter where he is (I usually know where he is anyway) and tell him to go to the toilet and send me a picture. To make sure he has not pretaken any photos I will ask for a particular item to be in the photo. For example; a pen, his watch displaying the time, paper with a word on it etc etc. When he leaves mine at the end of the weekend the key goes into an envelope that has my drawings, writing on it that simply cannot be forged. this envelope is numbered. There are other envelopes with further numbers for the sole purpose of him NEEDING the key. When he needs the key for climbing he will go online and video chat to me so I can see him opening the envelope and taking the key. After climbing he puts the cage back on then shows me him putting the key into envelope number 2 etc etc. So far, we are in our fourth week and it has not been a let down like it was before. We have a contract between us and a witness that states his penis belongs to me! Even if we have a row he is to stay locked up and no attempts to get the key are to be made. He does whatever I ask him to do and in return I reward him well. If he is allowed out, he is not always allowed to cum. He has to roll a dice to decide that. An even number after two rolls stated he gets to cum. If not, I get to tease him without him releasing himself. If I am displeased in him in anyway then I will not release him! Simple as that! I love it! I really do. This time its not a chore and I actually enjoy it. It has come a lot easier to the both us to get into. Its the norm now and it makes us think about each other all the time and we seem to enjoy each others company more. I hope he lasts the long haul because there is talk about coming away from it temporarily in the new year! I shall see about that bitch!!! When we first tried it, it was hard to be ‘normal’ at any time but now we have found a balance, still more on the sexual side but in a more mutually respected way so we can do everyday things too. I’m enjoying being in control, I constantly think up new ideas (we both do) and have no problems putting them into practice. If you click on his intro thread you will see a list of punishments he gets and an idea of what we do: the referenced community page As he is the one blogging about our adventures I will leave any details up to him. His first thread is here: the referenced community page Im sure I will have more to say as things progress but they will prob be in answer to whatever my bitch writes… Goddess Liz