Female led relationships discussion

Here’s a query for the ladies… Do you like it when an edged man helplessly grinds against your body, or perhaps the furniture, a pillow, the floor, or the mattress? Or do you prefer them trained to hold back this urge? Or is there a middle ground that suits you better—allowing male grinding by permission for fun or stimulation, but forbidding it when ordered (during sleep, general obedience drills, etc.)?