Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I don’t wear any hardware, yet when I edge on my own, a cockring is part of that process. One pattern I’ve spotted is that I frequently experience slow, ‘ruined’ climaxes. They often feel different from what I’d call standard orgasms since the aftermath doesn’t hit quite as hard - however, I actually prefer this state because the pleasure lasts longer and feels deeper; I can go through two or three of these cycles in a row while staying turned on afterward. The trade-off is that I produce more semen this way. Since my arousal stays high, I enjoy eating it post-climax! This leads me to wonder if having these ruined climaxes counts as breaking the rule, given my promise not to climax during masturbation sessions specifically. I could ask my partner about it, but she finds questions like that a bit of a mood killer. She’s mentioned she doesn’t mind how I choose to get off since her restriction is more about guidance than strict denial - it was a vow I took on myself. Still, she prefers me when I’m not climaxing too often because it makes me feel more eager and urgent, but ultimately, the choice of whether or how to act on that preference rests with me. So what does everyone else think? Opinions from women or male dominants would be particularly welcome!