I’ve been reflecting on how fortunate we men are that so many of us have partners who reveal a vast realm of pleasure to us, one we might never discover otherwise if they weren’t keen on denying our orgasms. We truly are lucky.
My priority is naturally my Mistress’s satisfaction, and I admit I used to err by concentrating too much on her climax rather than just what brings her joy. She isn’t solely fixated on her own orgasm; she values the intimacy experience more. I feel very blessed that one of her delights is watching me squirm near ecstasy through different physical methods.
I want to outline some of the varieties of orgasms I’ve encountered here. It’s not a complete list, so please add yours if you wish—I may have missed a few… we could all pick up new tricks!:)
For most people, the first orgasm comes from their own hand—intense and somewhat surprising. It was probably similar for many with their first girlfriend.
Back in those earlier days when I was young and foolish, like a lot of men, I was selfish during sex. No wonder my then-girlfriend left me. Actually, it wasn’t just selfishness; I simply never considered that women even have something called an orgasm. Back then, intercourse felt like a mechanical pump-pump-blurt for me—a good release but only lasting seconds before I wanted to sleep. My girlfriend didn’t really complain, though looking back I doubt she ever truly orgasmed with me. She seemed to enjoy sex enough despite it all. We were both so young; after all, I was 17 and she was 15.
As we matured… learning to hold our orgasm while waiting for our partner’s release marks the true beginning of tease and denial for many men.
Now: Handing over control of your climax to our significant other opens up a whole new spectrum of male orgasms. Why wouldn’t we want this? We are so fortunate to have women willing to invest in it, and if it pleases the mistress, it’s a win-win. Who among us could go back?
A normal full-blown orgasm is still wonderful when granted by our partners. Supervised and restricted, there isn’t much of a drop-off from denial, but unrestricted masturbation… well, we know that can leave one feeling empty and unsatisfied – No thank you Mistress - Praise be to chastity cages.
Simultaneous orgasms happen when we climax together—traditional sex (for us, traditional means me kneeling before her, keeping my shaft hard while she takes herself over the edge; at that moment I am allowed to enter and cum, though permission isn’t always granted). This remains my favorite; it leaves me soaring, feeling ready to conquer the world – Thank you Mistress.
When our mistress orgasms but ours are denied (as described above)… another of my favorites. Any time she comes is good!:) It brings satisfaction to the sexual attention us orgasm-sluts crave – Thank you Mistress.
Ruined orgasms represent an entire new spectrum within male climax:
The first type of ruined orgasm involves rigorous stimulation followed by withdrawal at the precise moment past the point of no return, resulting in some ejaculation. The outcome is partial relief, but horniness returns quickly – Thank you Mistress. Optional: Following a ruined orgasm, vigorous over-stimulation to the knob until I cry out – Thank you Mistress (she adores this).
The anal orgasm during strapon sex has been explained to me by my mistress; I will learn to cum this way with the cage on. This particular orgasm is very intense and leaves one exhausted. So far, while I get quite hard and aroused, I can cum with minimal stimulation… naturally adding yet another spectrum of male orgasm – Thank you Mistress.
One spurt: Where a man reaches the brink but doesn’t fully cross it; a muscle contraction produces just one single spurts of cum. More than one spurt makes it a normal ruined orgasm. The result is slight relief, and continued stimulation remains possible – Thank you Mistress.
Edging followed by a squirt of cum without any associated feeling at all, usually after some anal stimulation. A man will happily consume his own cum because no true orgasm occurred—a perfect milking. Achieving this veneer of edging typically requires the man to be under instruction during supervised masturbation – Thank you Mistress.
The edge ruined orgasm: If a man stays on the edge long enough, an orgasm is inevitable regardless of caution. The gun is constantly loaded until even a gentle finger touch triggers it… then that same touch pushes him into a ruined climax. This often happens as a mistake because he was trying hard not to cum. A man usually doesn’t want to eat his cum after such a ruined event, though sometimes it gets stuffed in his mouth – Thank you Mistress.
Then there is the pure edge session where no orgasm occurs at all; the man is put back into the cage before the inevitable happens. An edge is technically an incomplete orgasm—the beginning of one—so it counts as an orgasm just unfinished. The edge can be achieved via penile stimulation OR anal stimulation or both. Sometimes, if I am very lucky, my mistress lets me inside her to remind me what it feels like – Thank you Mistress.
If you think of any I’ve forgotten, please add them in and don’t forget to thank your Mistress!:)