Hey there. My girlfriend and I are considering trying tease and denial as a starting point. Here’s the backstory:
I’ve read extensively about chastity, teasing, and denial. The concept of holding back my orgasms while giving her what she wants really appeals to me personally. Naturally quite dominant myself, with my GF being submissive specifically towards me. This role reversal excites me and offers a welcome break from everyday stress.
Why start now? I’m currently cycling through steroids (started three weeks ago) and yes, I’ve got the package—tall, muscular, heavy. Steroid cycles tend to spike my libido significantly; usually, we’re having sex three or four times daily (I weigh 250lbs, so picture that!). The downside is I often feel drained for workouts which can last up to 4 hours. If I don’t get laid by her, I’ll just masturbate enough times to compensate.
So, my GF and I decided I need denial so I can power through my workouts with full energy.
Right now we have a metal cage and the CB6000 device (thanks to China). I prefer the metal one but suspect I got it slightly wrong in size. For those unaware, testicles shrink on steroids, which changes measurements. The current issue is that after a while, it pulls down hard against my balls, causing discomfort. With the CB6000, fitting my uncircumcised cock without bunching up the foreskin (neither of us wants me cut) is tricky; after a few hours, it gets unpleasant, especially with the skin folding and resulting pain.
My last full orgasm was five days ago, followed by two small ruined ones. Since I’m on steroids, we think keeping the prostate empty makes sense since it swells up anyway.
I’d love your thoughts on my situation and how to tweak things. I want to extend time between orgasms, but the urge is strong. During sex, penetration is allowed (my GF wouldn’t have it any other way; she wants me to learn control), yet many times I just want to pick her up and go for it!
I haven’t done that specific thing yet, but there’s no reason not to. She wouldn’t mind, possibly enjoying it more.
We’re doing this ‘me-no-cum’ style sex more often now because I’m constantly hard all day (thanks to 1g of testosterone dosage lol). Even when off the roids, our sessions tend to be rough and hot.