Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Chastity is doing well for me. I’ve been locked since early May, with the cage on constantly regardless of what’s happening. My wife gets incredibly annoyed if I even bring up my penis, let alone sex itself. She mostly ignores it completely, though we still manage intercourse about twice a month. I really wish she would go out, leave me locked up, and take more charge over her own life—perhaps seeing other men. I adore her deeply and wouldn’t dream of leaving her, but I want her to become even more dominant, pushing the point until my dick practically begs for release on its own. She has total freedom, yet if I mention it, she gets negative and assumes I no longer love her. That’s completely untrue. Has anyone else experienced this dynamic? By the way, she is very attractive, so it would be easy for her to do more if she just tried a bit.