Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Does anyone else experience this? Whenever my wife permits me to ejaculate, regardless of the method, I feel incredibly aroused for a day or two afterward. The sensation of the cage pressing against my penis makes being locked up even more intense. Before getting locked, when we did have intercourse, I would often try asking her for sex the following day, but she almost always declined, leaving me to masturbate as long as necessary over the next few days until I was relieved. My lovely wife doesn’t give any clear signs of how many days remain before my next release and allowed orgasm; it feels like a window of 2 to 4 weeks. Although I eagerly anticipate my next orgasm, I dread those subsequent days where I am extremely horny yet unable to do anything about it.