Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! I appreciate you all for turning this site into such a useful resource. Even though my primary role is being dominant with my wife, the concept of chastity has become quite attractive lately. I began drafting the full story, but it was becoming too lengthy for an introduction. I’ll save that detail for another time. The short version: I proposed it to her recently, and she asked me to do some research before giving her a week to decide. Has anyone experienced a dynamic where the man becomes dominant while in chastity? I haven’t found much online or in books about this, partly because English search engines default to masculine frames. My wife still wants me to tie her up, be rough with her, and use name-calling; I hope that spending most of my time locked will make me more eager and energized to do these things once she releases me. Thanks! —Rolls