This coming Saturday my Wife & i were supposed to visit a Friend of Hers who is a lifelong Domme for a day of training & learning. The training was for me, while my Wife was going to be learning a few things from Her Friend. Things like rope tying, proper spanking, paddling & caning techniques as well as finding out just how hard She can strike a bare ass. Her Friend’s husband is her sub & will be there for demonstration purposes. We have known them for several years & have had lunch a few times but this will be the first time for a get together like this. Her Friend had told me that i will remain locked in a cage & blindfolded in their living room while She & my Wife went through what She was going to be teaching Her for the afternoon in the playroom. Once finished, they “might” try what my Wife learned on me, or just start some of my other training. For starters, She insists that my locked times in the chastity needed to be a lot longer than they have been & that is the first step in my training unless my Wife wants to learn cbt while there. If not, my lock is not coming off. i had thought that my locked times were already very long going averaging 3 to 7 months at a time but Her idea is 1 year minimum. One year has been a fantasy of mine but that is a very long time in reality. Of course i will not complain, i am going to make it a personal goal. She suggested to my Wife that we can make an annual event of my unlocking by getting together once each year. Maybe have a small party with some other friends of Hers, allow me my annual orgasm then re-lock me immediately & start all over. This has been arranged for a couple of weeks now but yesterday i got an email from the Domme telling me they had to cancel & reschedule our get together for another day towards the end of the month. i was a little disappointed but somewhat relieved. i replied to Her & said that it was not a problem & that i am sure we can reschedule when it’s convenient. My Wife is also a bit disappointed but She has already moved ahead with plans to get together with other friends. i am going to stay positive & use this as a method to learn to be more patient.:)
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