Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Exactly! It’s been just over three weeks since we last had intercourse, and I was locked up right away. Between the Christmas holidays and family visits galore, things have gotten busy. There hasn’t been any top-and-down (t+d) at all. To make matters worse, our youngest, who is 18 months old, has started having night tremors. For those who don’t know, these are essentially nightmares; she goes through three or four a night, lasting up to half an hour each time. They appear as though the child is awake but isn’t really. If you try to comfort her, she pushes you away because she’s distressed and doesn’t recognize you immediately—bashing around, climbing, and fighting to escape. So we’re both running on very little sleep now! My wife seems happier with my current attitude, although it feels like she has forgotten all about me. I know I really should talk to her about this; I just needed a place to vent right now. Thanks for reading—any advice is welcome.