Greetings everyone, I’ve been away for some time, and I trust all is well. A big thank you to Miss Watchful for her wonderful work on this site.
My purpose here today is to share something with one person in particular.
For years, my experience has been a cycle of being locked up and let out while wearing a Lori tube. My mistress/partner (who doesn’t reside with me but visits often) used to occasionally amuse herself, yet her primary focus was actually on pleasing me through chastity.
That dynamic has shifted now, all thanks to something quite straightforward.
For the past five months—particularly since Christmas—I have been locked up almost constantly. Yet, I find myself completely owned and thoroughly subdued, but in a remarkably gentle manner.
Her wishes are central to everything; she requires just one simple condition:
I must never ask for release on my own behalf. This is a solemn pledge between us, not merely play-acting. This single rule has transformed our arrangement entirely.
We settled this agreement last September around the same time. What I didn’t realize then was that it granted her total authority over everything—my body, mind, and spirit.
She understands me well enough to know that after three to five days of confinement, my obedience becomes absolute regarding her needs. She is fully aware of this. Sometimes she desires this complete submission; other times not—but in either case, she manages it by controlling my orgasms and planning ahead.
For about three months now, she has been ‘experimenting,’ which means I spend frequent periods locked for roughly two weeks at a stretch. During these times, she watches me closely to ensure compliance, expecting exemplary devotion. If I slip up in any way, she coaches me back into line. She doesn’t demand much, but if I have a moment of thoughtlessness—like forgetting the spoon near the cup—it will be noticed and my karma restored.
Currently, I am locked for six days with hopes that this time it lasts a full month. She knows perfectly well that as soon as she walks through the door, all my attention is fixed on her. She has deliberately raised the stakes by allowing me to lick her until orgasm.
When she grows weary of my attentions, she might release me for just one orgasm, which she controls. She will remind me that I am forbidden from coming without permission; after which, I must beg her to allow it. Occasionally—and unpredictably—she denies my request even when I plead, keeping me under lock and key until a few more days pass.
By our mutual understanding, my cock belongs to her solely; she does not permit me to ask for favors regarding it—it is simply her toy.
So I say this to other current Mistress’s and those aspiring to be one: This is the first simple yet most powerful step. Afterward, you may do as YOU wish with both him and his situation.
***NEVER NEVER NEVER - NEVER let him ask [/*U] Obtain a vow from him, ensure it is sincere, then confine him—this is the secret to total domination; no whips or chains needed.
One last thing before I drift back into the digital ether:
I would like to inquire if any Mistress would welcome her sub joining this thread and taking this oath. Perhaps she might also wish for him to post his honest, genuine pledge here. It may be wise for the Mistress to record it, as she is the one who must be satisfied that he has truly surrendered himself.
Loris