I haven’t posted in a bit because we hadn’t been focusing much on orgasm denial over the last few months, possibly even longer. February was packed with sexual activity—hotel encounters, Valentine’s Day intimacy, and birthday celebrations. We even went to a sex club together (just us two). Being in our 40s with an active family life means that level of frequency doesn’t happen often.
Since the trip to the sex club, things have shifted. It feels like denial sometimes begins without any specific plan or objective attached to it. We’ve gone nearly three weeks since we last had intercourse, about two weeks for my own release. There’s been more active teasing and withholding, or perhaps she has started moving around me in her mind (MB) more frequently.
I realize this can be a somewhat taboo subject, but we have dabbled slightly with cuckolding. It fits well with my D/s fantasies. She has a friend who helps her check out other men. This makes me nervous yet aroused simultaneously. We also plan to do some phone sex and attend a munch soon enough. Only time will tell.
It’s likely the denial streak ends on Friday. I am eager but slightly apprehensive about how I’ll feel once the intensity subsides.