My wife is going to be gone for six weeks starting in mid-August. I haven’t masturbated since last November, and ever since then only my spouse has brought me an orgasm. She won’t even allow me to touch myself during sex, regardless of whether it’s time for one. Her argument is that she holds the control; if I do it alone, she loses her power.
Because we had a couple of failures where things went past three weeks previously, I thought she would let me off chastity duty. Instead, I just found out she expects me to lock up and wait for her return. We both know that after two weeks without release, I become very domesticated. There is nothing I can’t do around the house to distract myself from my arousal. She believes keeping me in this mindset is a smart move, and it makes sense.
My primary worry isn’t really the six-week duration of chastity itself, but rather that she might not be able to tease me two or three times a week, which usually helps me manage. I typically settle down for a day or two after those teasing sessions, particularly if she has reached her own orgasm as well. That is what frightens me.
Does anyone else go weeks without being teased? If so, how do you handle it? While she would allow touching myself, she could have me edge on my own, but she remains firm that I shouldn’t touch at all. This prospect makes me quite nervous.