This fellow outlines three varieties of male chastity ( suited for the traditional dominatrix, or a woman whose partner desires submission:
The CHASTIZED desires release from the cage to achieve an orgasm as quickly as possible. Yet you hold the power and can wield it to secure nearly whatever you wish - the more unusual, the better in his eyes. He takes pleasure in being subjected to this dynamic. The CHATHLETE seeks escape but views chastity like a test of athletic stamina. His goal is to endure for days or weeks. You serve as both guide and hurdle. At times you cheer him on; at others, you taunt him and turn his existence into an erotic trial. Who holds the key matters less than how it’s used. The CHAYSTE gentleman isn’t particularly eager to leave once secured. He savors the constant stimulation and heightened sensitivity, along with the relief of knowing he doesn’t have to worry about his member being available. He also prefers to believe this is a profound gesture of devotion. Who needs keys? (I suspect there are more chastity-obsessed men who identify as chayste than they admit, perhaps forming the root for the other two types. Still, it feels unfair to press that point on others.) I find these distinctions helpful in clarifying various points we often debate here. I fall squarely within the CHATHLETE group and feel confident about where many of us belong.