It’s not quite as dramatic as it might seem.
A little over a year back, my relationship dissolved. I had been under chastity control for six years during that time. Chastity was deeply woven into the fabric of our bond, so I readily assumed I wouldn’t seek to wear one again unless I found another partner. The urge to have a CB on its own just wasn’t there.
I also felt certain that no one else could hold my keys except the person who had done so for all those years.
Then last week, a casual conversation with someone here made me realize I might be mistaken—or maybe it was simply time to move forward. It could have been her whim, but she managed to hit a few nerves and, after getting comfortable, just told me to locate my CB and lock up. Wearing the cage wasn’t high on my priority list; refusing or faking compliance would have been easy enough. Still, she piqued my interest.
It took about half an hour to track down all the components and secure them in place. Once I did, it felt like returning home. Aside from a thorough wash, it hasn’t come off since, and I’m not even sure when or if I’ll want to remove it later.
I had always vowed that should I choose chastity again, I would invest in a superior device. Without further ado, this week I found myself ordering a Steelworxx Looker, and I remain surprised by how much I desire it.
This brings me to the main point of my message. A fine CB is excellent, but it lacks something crucial without a key holder who truly wants to guard them and enforce the discipline.
For me, engagement with a key holder needs to go deeper than merely exchanging keys on a set schedule. Ideally, I want to connect with an actual person, someone I can talk to about life, the universe, and everything else.
It would also be beneficial if that key holder lived within a reasonable distance. This allows for real-time management of my chastity state. Sometimes, it’s just nice to visit so they can supervise my release for cleaning in person.
Locating the right match is tricky because many who are passionate about enforcing chastity have been burned by subs who couldn’t handle genuine restraint.
So I post this with hope outweighing expectation. I hope it resonates with someone considering giving key holding another try.
I’m open to discussing and exploring via conversation or chat to see if we click and build something that works.