hey everyone, new here! Thanks in advance for any helpful tips.
I’ve been exploring BDSM for a few years and now I feel the need to be locked up, hand over control, and stop my wild whipping around—so chastity devices it is!
I always thought I was pretty average-sized since I hadn’t compared mine directly with others. But then I bought several: a CB6000, a PA 5000 (1.25 width), plus some other metal cages (yes, the budget ones) and a Pico from Birdlock. It’s quite a story why I have so many, but anyway…
I noticed most had standard cages with a 1 3/8 opening, which seemed fine at first.
Now I can barely fit into any of them! Everyone says ‘I’ve worn one for ages,’ yet I couldn’t keep mine on for more than just a few days.
So after measuring myself properly: about 800mm length along the top curve, 40mm shaft width, and 45mm at the widest part of the head (at rest). No wonder they were crushing me!
Does anyone have advice? Or maybe you want to swap devices since I can’t use these ones?