Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi all, I’ve been fairly quiet on the forums this year since life is good and busy for me right now. The only hiccup is my health. Like anyone who smokes, cigarettes have taken their toll on me, so when winter arrives, I get that dreaded wheeze. I’m 52 years old and have smoked throughout my entire adult life, so you can guess what it’s like. Mistress offered to give me a reward if I quit smoking.The only issue is I’ve been locked up for most of the year, aside from our July holidays where I went swimming with the kids. In September, she decided to try some new things just to mix things up and have fun. The highlight was 30 minutes of foreplay while I wasn’t locked up. I took care of Mistress first, and after she had orgasmed a few times, she told me to go to sleep! I’m used to sleeping like this when I’m in the cage, but it’s different when unlocked. It was hard to drift off, and I ended up having an accident. Mistress and I really enjoy our Domme/sub dynamic each morning after the kids leave for school. She goes back to bed until noon while I work from home. Usually around midweek, she gives me 12 firm strokes with her leather paddle on my hands—6 per hand as I stand there lifting them up. Then she returns to bed. On some mornings, she allows me to “tuck her in,” which means licking her clean a few times. This only happens when she’s feeling it though; sometimes often, other times not at all. We talked about trying one more time to kick the smoking habit. Here is my plan: I am staying locked until Christmas Day and have had to downsize a ring size. It’s tough, but Mike CB helped me out. Every morning I still get my hand slaps as usual, but once I hit 30 days, I’ll receive a full tie-down with 300 strokes on my bare bottom while dressed up.I will repeat this at the 60-day and 90-day marks. Mistress knows how much I crave a proper flogging session, and it has been a long time since I had over 300 hard strokes—my last one was in May for my birthday. She gets a bit tired delivering 300 strokes herself, and she feels that breaking the skin isn’t entirely her idea of fun. However, she knows how important this is to me. So I know I have to submit to this silly habit, especially now with such a great incentive. I quit smoking on October 1st, so tomorrow marks one week smoke-free! Locked, Lashed, Healthy and Happy. If I break the rules and light up a cigarette, I lose all my bonus points. No hand slaps and no bottom licking either; she will just take care of herself. P.S. I also get to choose what Mistress wears for that big session too! I hope this helps others give up smoking by creating their own reward systems. It’s wonderful, and with the buzz I have now, it’s easier than ever before. Best regards, dubsub