Hi again. I’ve been gone for over a year because of a family loss, but my Queen and I are getting our life back in order, and our sex life is a major part of that recovery. I used to wear the curve model, but it eventually split apart; it was always a bit bulky anyway, so I picked up a steel device along with the CB6000. The steel one works well for short-term play—say two or three days—but if I keep it on longer than that, it gets heavy and starts to annoy me. Also, there’s a hinge that catches on things when I’m moving around a lot.
The other day my Queen realized her birthday is only about a month away, so she decided she wants me locked up until then. I was thrilled.
I brought out the CB6000 and found a ring roughly similar in size to what I’d been using with the steel device. It felt right when I put it on. However, compared to the curve, the 6000 tube is narrower, so I fill up its width quite fully. This makes it hard for me to shift around inside it and also a bit tricky to clean last night.
After three days of being locked with no major issues, I started feeling some real discomfort in my left ball. So my Queen let me out, and the pain spiked even more than usual for a while. It’s been easing up now that almost 24 hours have passed. Did I pick too small a ring? I feel like I might need something different from the CB6000 setup, but I’m not entirely sure.
I’m quite frustrated because this is the first time in ages we’ve been doing this dynamic properly, and it feels like it’s hitting a sudden wall with both of us unhappy.