I’ve been wearing my lock for two weeks now without any orgasm. I had intercourse a few days before locking up, and my wife has actually come to terms with me wanting to be locked up from time to time. My goal is to reach a full month at some point, but I prefer doing it in chunks of a few weeks rather than 24/7/365.
When I’m home (since I travel frequently for work), I also want to wear leather wrist and ankle cuffs. So now, when she unlocks me every other day for a shower, she removes all the locks but leaves them nearby for me to put back on once I return… however, she takes the keys and hides them away.
I even wanted to go out in public with just the ankle cuffs on, and today she was okay with that as long as we secured the lock properly so it doesn’t make noise when I walk or draw attention. I wouldn’t mind either way, but we did it to keep her comfortable.
We’ll see what happens next.