A late introduction (I’ve been a member for over a month now)… So far, I’ve enjoyed reading the forum posts, stories, and pictures too. I’ll chip in here and there as time permits. I just set up my first album with some photos of me wearing my chastity device at that moment (CB-3000 back then; CB-6000 now).
My journey into this lifestyle started about five years ago. At the time, I had been married for several years, but my wife was getting tired of my masturbating and it was causing real issues in our marriage. I found information on chastity devices for men and it looked like a good answer to the problem. She was quite skeptical at first, but as time passed she came to appreciate the changes it brought to the relationship and her sense of control grew too. The device back then was the CB-2000 and I could wear it from just a few hours initially to over many weeks in one go.
Sadly, for other reasons, our marriage only lasted about another year. We parted as good friends and still keep in touch. She, however, didn’t give me the keys back; instead, she handed them over to a professional Domme. Over the next 8 months, I had an eye-opening education into BDSM, submission, serving, punishment, and much more. She also trained me on a schedule of wearing the device for two weeks straight, then unlocking it for cleaning, shaving, etc. (but no orgasms) for a few hours before locking up again. The relationship wasn’t romantic at all; more like Domme and sub. And while this was happening, I started developing a connection with a woman at work who became a great support during the divorce.
The relationship with my co-worker blossomed even more over the coming months, moving from friends to dating to serious romance. Obviously when it reached the point of intimacy, I had to explain my situation and the chastity device I was wearing. She was surprised and understanding but understandably hesitant for almost two weeks. After that she became intensely curious and wanted to learn way more about chastity etc. Learn she did, accepting and embracing it fully. I left the relationship with the Domme and moved in with her. The keys were again not handed to me but to her - from woman to woman. We got engaged and then married in September 2007. Before our marriage and since, we haven’t had traditional intercourse. In fact, by traditional terms, our marriage is unconsummated. However, she consummated it (in femdom terms) by using a strap-on dildo on my ass that evening. I had an intense orgasm from the sex but I’ve not been allowed any more since that night.
Since then, we’ve grown into our roles of submissive and Domme. I’ve moved from the CB-3000 to the CB-6000, we discussed and mutually agreed on permanent orgasm denial for me, which introduced prostate milking to my continuing chastity schedule of two weeks straight followed by a few hours out and then back in. Last fall, we took another step - cuckolding. It had a rocky start but as this year started it smoothed out and I am supporting her fully in getting the sexual fulfillment she needs and deserves. I’m 50 now, she is 42 and her steady lover is 29. He can satisfy her in ways that I cannot. I have come to understand and accept that I’m a submissive male and my wife and mistress’s pleasure comes first above all else. We don’t have anything written down but we are trying in our own way to live a female dominant, cuckolded and enforced chastity male submissive life.
So… hello everyone!