Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

[mtQKpfEzmBx95LB8Y7gX-Cg.jpg I received the Bon4M in small, their stainless steel metal chastity device. It’s not as heavy as I expected and doesn’t feel much different from my CB6000s. As is typical when I put a new item on my penis, it retreated into hiding, requiring some porn to coax it back out.:) What drew me to the Bon4 metal was its open design, which I believe will make cleaning much simpler. It also presses the sides of my penis against multiple openings, allowing my wife to play with it while locked up. She suggested getting it because she didn’t like having access only to my testicles during teasing sessions when I needed to be locked. Although not very long, I am thick and should press well against the cage walls. It includes four hinged rings. One detail I noticed is that there’s a ring size between the two I use for my CB6000s. Like Goldilocks, one was too big and the other too small with the CB, so this one fits perfectly. I worried about getting pinched when putting it on and had a playing card ready to slide between my scrotum and ring, but it wasn’t necessary. The metal parts are free of burrs and not sharp like some reports suggested for early batches. They include sandpaper and electrical tape to smooth edges and cover hinge areas. I haven’t needed them yet as I’ve only worn it about an hour so far. It feels more comfortable than the CB6000s currently. The CB doesn’t have hinges, but the spot where the two half-moon top parts meet always irritated me. Putting on the BON4M ring is easier since you just clamp it shut and insert a metal pin (they provide two) to hold it together; with the CB, I often struggled without pinching. The Bon4M has a larger center pin and two small guide pins flanking it. Aligning those small pins with their holes takes some practice, but if you align the cage with the ring first, they come together easily. They provide a tiny lock from an unfamiliar brand, so I used my Master plastic lock instead. The Master lock included with the CB was slightly too large; I could fit it through the pin hole but couldn’t maneuver it to face forward. One surprise was the cold steel against my scrotum. Freezing the cage for fun seems possible, though you must be careful of frostbite in sensitive areas where things might fall off.:) Chilling it beforehand should also appeal to my wife, who likes grabbing me when her hands are cold. I’m starting to feel the hinge at the bottom, so I might apply some tape. The sensation is on the side of the ring, not inside, likely because my wife wanted to see it under panties. I usually “forget” to wear them, preferring commando over cross-dressing, but she likes how they create a nice bulge in pants. I bought dark solid-colored ones that pass for men’s underwear unless examined closely. Overall, the Bon4 feels more comfortable than the CB. I just discovered a hair caught in the hinge, which explains the sensation. It was impossible to tape over because lube prevents adhesion. If I use tape, I’ll apply it after putting on the ring and adding lube. Live and learn. My wife loves how it looks, which is what matters most. Not much else to add. I’m also using Lanocane anti-chafing gel for the first time, so we shall see how it compares to the expensive silicone lube I was using.