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I’ve been pondering why I can’t seem to break free from my clearly insecure device. It boils down to this:
- The tail is wagging the dog! For men, an erect penis signals dominance. If we can’t achieve erection, it pushes us toward submission… making us too submissive to take off the device that stops our erections as long as someone else prefers it stays put.
- Masturbation feels lonely! There’s something soul-crushing about spending years jerking off while lost in submissive daydreams. Once someone actually wants you locked up, you suddenly face a choice: be a sad failure stroking yourself alone in the cold, or become a devoted slave fulfilling your submissive fate.
- Rewired brain! This is slightly eerie and quite appealing to consider. When locked into a chastity device, release only comes when you are intensely turned on enough to start leaking. Usually, this happens while giving your mistress an orgasm. Over time — the human mind being what it is — we become conditioned to link arousal with serving our mistress down below, rather than linking it with stroking off or having sex. What’s everyone else thinking? (That captures the core of a longer blog post here.)