I’ve dabbled with chastity intermittently. My girlfriend and I have tried it numerous times, but we’re aiming for a much longer duration now. Usually, she takes the key away while I stay locked up when she’s out of town. Those previous attempts averaged around 5 to 6 days, which was quite tough for me. Six days is my personal record so far—what a challenge that was.
Next week marks the start of a session lasting between four and eight weeks. My release date will depend on how I behave, but I’ll be unlocked periodically for regular intercourse before being locked back up without allowing an orgasm afterward. I’m eager to see this through and understand what it does to me—does anyone have tips for someone tackling their first long-term stint?
I’m particularly anxious about the periods when I’m unlocked: how do I stay completely submissive and agreeable to having myself re-locked? Sleep has also always been a major hurdle for me. Aside from getting up to urinate during morning erections, does anyone have advice on that front?
Most importantly… What can I do to ensure this period is as enjoyable for my partner as possible? Obviously, I’ll cater to her sexual desires; but beyond that, what else could make things better for her?