I’ve been playing around with male chastity since it’s one of my fetishes and my partner has shown interest in controlling my orgasms.
Two issues have come up that a quick Google search hasn’t quite resolved: 1: I found a device comfortable enough for daily wear (had to bump the ring size so it wouldn’t hurt my balls), but it woke me up six times when I tried sleeping with it. Nocturnal erections brought several types of pain: straining in the cage, burning on the scrotum skin, and an ache from the tight cage around the testicles. Is there really any way to keep chastity from hurting at night? 2: Lately I noticed that if I pull the cage forward, I can grab the back of my penis and slide it out. But I need a secure method that doesn’t hurt. My fetish is about being UNABLE to jerk off on my own, not just choosing not to. That’s what appeals to my partner too—the control aspect. This might be linked to having increased the ring size; if I drop it back down, daywear becomes painful.
So basically, how can a device stay as secure as possible while minimizing pain?