Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone. I’m relatively new to this whole scene, having received my first piece at the start of the year (a KHD-X3) and really loving it. I’ve reached a stage where going without it feels like something is missing. I haven’t quite found the courage yet to share my wants with my wife, and truthfully, I doubt I ever will. Right now, I keep the cage on during work hours but take it off when she might feel or see it. The potential of 3-D printed devices has really captured my interest since buying mine. The Evotion Wearables designs appeal to me greatly, though I’m hesitant about getting a PA or frenum piercing. Those would be hard enough to conceal from her anyway.:P On top of that, I worry about the comfort level with such piercings since I am uncut and have always disliked pulling my foreskin back. My glans is super sensitive because it stays covered most of the time. I’m mostly here to learn and perhaps meet friends who are either new or seasoned in this lifestyle. For me, it boils down to control and submission, staying focused on my duties rather than worrying about sexual release. I don’t care much for feminization or sissification, though I respect those who do love that side of things. Your kink is not my kink and that is ok.:)