Hi there, I’m fairly new here, having watched with interest for some time. My thirteen-year marriage has been struggling for a couple of years now; we spend our evenings in different parts of the house, sex is nonexistent, and there’s plenty of tension. She watches TV while I game, and naturally, since intimacy dried up, I’ve spent more time online.
A few months back, I accidentally connected with a younger woman who plays the same games as me. She really enjoyed my company and liked me better than she did her own husband. One thing led to another. We never met in person, but we had an emotional affair that turned into love for me.
During a recent vacation in Mexico with my wife, she discovered photos of this other woman on my phone while looking through it. I wasn’t entirely caught off guard; I knew the risk was there since having her pictures visible meant secrecy couldn’t last forever.
The marriage erupted. She announced my infidelity to everyone on Facebook. We argued endlessly—everything from jokes about “you have a small penis” to other grievances you can imagine. I headed to the airport ready to leave this cold, lonely relationship for good, but then it hit me: I just can’t do it. I realized I still love her more than I thought and would rather stay with her than be alone elsewhere.
She took me back, so we’re continuing our Mexico trip together. It’s tough right now as I try to make amends. My mistakes didn’t mean the relationship was bad before; trust is just a massive issue now.
I proposed that I wear a male chastity device as a peace offering. At first, she thought it was ridiculous. A day or two later, I brought it up again, and this time she showed real interest. She wanted to know how the devices work, why I’d choose them, what my expectations are, etc. I showed her photos of the CB-6000s along with numerous testimonials from forums about how they “saved marriages,” increased housework participation, and deepened devotion.
I’m not sure if it was her need for intimacy after months without it, her desire to trust me again, my willingness to do more chores, or simply the idea that sex could finally be about HER—not just for ME—perhaps even a hint of enjoying seeing me suffer. Whatever the reason, she decided it was a brilliant plan.
We ordered a CB-6000s, a large strap-on dildo, and surprisingly, a penis pump (we know it doesn’t permanently enlarge anything, so we see it mostly as another tool for her to tease me with). We return home in eight days. Once back, I’ll be locked up for an indefinite period.
I’m desperate to rebuild trust, love, and passion. I want total control over my ability to orgasm granted by her; she should have the power to tease and deny me as she sees fit. I need her to feel completely in charge and know that I am utterly devoted. The lock serves as proof I’m not wandering online because why would I cheat when locked up?
She embraced it immediately. We’ve had incredible sex—best ever, really. I gave oral, she rode me, she performed oral on me, used a vibrator while I sucked her breasts, and even made me touch myself but stop. For two days straight, we made love twice daily without allowing me any release, despite not being locked yet. After years of touching off regularly, this is the longest dry spell in over a year or so. Cheating would be easy right now, but I want to keep my word.
Last night, I was incredibly horny; I sat on the edge of the bed for half an hour hoping she’d wake up so I could beg to pleasure her again.
We seem suited for this lifestyle. But I have questions: How long do husbands typically stay locked without release? Do wives really miss their penis that much? Are they truly satisfied without it? Will my wife grow to love the strap-on so much that she’ll never want my smaller member back? Will she enjoy keeping me locked longer and longer? And will I desire that same duration? Is this likely a lifelong commitment?
I’m terrified, yet excited.
