Planetary Hoping for progress with the cage

I’ve hit a few rough patches early on in my chastity experience. It began with cross-dressing and an interest in BDSM, particularly female dominance. I adored the idea of dressing as a French maid, though I never fully committed to it nor found others who shared that passion. About 15 years ago, I met my future wife; we connected instantly. Unfortunately, she is quite vanilla regarding CD, even if we’ve experimented with some light bondage from time to time. The allure of chastity cages returned about three years back when I secretly purchased a few for testing after discussing giving her more control in our bedroom. She wasn’t keen on the idea initially and felt rather upset upon discovering it—much like she does now whenever I’m caught cross-dressing or buying women’s underwear. Two weeks ago during sex, she asked if there was anything new I’d like to try. I honestly admitted that I wanted her to have more control while exploring orgasm denial. The first week went smoothly; we were intimate daily and I held back until the final day. Now in our second week, things are getting a little rocky as Christmas approaches and stresses her out. I really hope she’ll join me in choosing a chastity cage together. Focusing on her needs will help us succeed.