Hello everyone who wears chastity! I’m relatively new to this world and eager to push my boundaries. Please bear with me as I share a bit of background so you can follow my path and understand what I need from my chastity setup.
I work remotely, which makes it too easy to get distracted by porn. Edging for hours has become an unfortunate habit that eats up time and affects my stamina during weekend intimacy with my partner. Right now, he isn’t involved in my practice directly. If I find this works well for me, I might introduce the idea to him later—though I’m not sure how he’d feel about it; perhaps we can discuss that another time.
As an athletic guy who plays ball several nights a week and hits the gym, I don’t need to wear my device during workouts. Easy on-and-off functionality is crucial for me. My goal is mainly to keep it locked in during “danger zones” like mornings and late evenings. If comfort allows, I’m happy wearing it continuously Monday through Friday outside of gym hours.
I bought a CB6000s knockoff from Amazon as my first device. As others noted, it was a bit of a poor choice initially. It was inexpensive, but even with plenty of lube, I struggled to fit my penis into the shaft properly, let alone secure the ring. The return process via Amazon went smoothly though.
Next, I ordered an HTv3 maxi knockoff as a replacement, which proved much more successful in terms of getting it on. In fact, I’m wearing it right now while typing this! I really like the lightweight resin material and how snugly it fits. The lock is discreet and functional so far. Wearing it feels great; knowing I have a little secret adds an exciting mental layer to the physical barrier against masturbation.
However, my large testicles present some challenges. Putting on the ring can be tight and uncomfortable initially, but once secured, there are lingering comfort issues. My balls get pulled forward and pressed firmly against the resin shaft, preventing them from hanging naturally. This forward tension also pulls the device back slightly, causing the top of the shaft to press into my body, adding mild discomfort. Additionally, the ring’s tightness becomes noticeable on the underside of my scrotum over time.
These issues seem manageable for short periods but make it hard to last a full day without relief. I believe switching to a larger ring would help. My current largest is 50mm; does anyone know if you can source a 55mm replacement plug? If not, I’m open to other devices but want to keep costs around $50 or less rather than spending too much on custom options.
While custom metal devices offer the best fit, I worry about their weight, large hanging locks, and higher price tags. Discretion is key for me. I’ve also looked at belt-style models with a plug, which sounded appealing but seemed bulkier. For now, I’m enjoying these new submissive feelings more than expected and hope to find something comfortable enough to wear five days a week.
Thanks for reading and helping out a newbie!