I have mentioned in the past that our dynamic leans more toward ‘denial’ than teasing. We’ve been at this for a few months now and it’s been really positive — I’ve learned so much about myself, as well as us… My wife isn’t exactly a “reluctant KH” though; she just seems somewhat detached from the process, treating it like an afterthought. Last night was special — we had our first real “mindfuck.”
She spent the evening out with her friends and returned around 11:00 PM. The children were asleep by then, and since Friday is her day off (today), this is typically when we get a chance to sneak in some intimacy. Upon arriving home, she headed into the bathroom for her makeup removal routine while I lay there pretending to read a book. She climbed into bed, snuggled close, kissed me warmly, and told me “I was thinking about your cock all night.” But then she rolled away, reached over to the nightstand for her small Lelo vibe, and began taking care of herself! I asked a couple of times if she wanted any assistance or if she’d like me to fetch the key. Her reply was essentially “No… I got this.”
She had what sounded like a wonderful orgasm while I just lay there watching. Afterward, she rolled over again and asked if I was still awake, then requested that I clean her vibe before we settled down for sleep.
Wow. I feel like she’s really embracing it.