I’ve spent a good while digging through the forum, and honestly, reading everything here has to mean I really enjoy male chastity. My girlfriend and I have been together for several years (it feels like just yesterday), and last year I brought up the idea of MC. She was hesitant at first but has gradually warmed up to it, realizing it’s not that strange after all. The concept itself is a real turn-on for me, and wanting her to take control speaks volumes about our mutual trust.
I came across male chastity a few years back; initially I thought it was crazy, but deep down I was curious. One night, after we’d been apart for months during our long-distance phase, I mentioned “losing the mastery of my own domain,” which actually upset her slightly.
Before going further, I should note that ours is what some might call a vanilla start to relationships. We both entered the relationship expecting to wait until marriage. I have an aversion to the V-word (the one associated with that quasi-successful mobile phone company), but I hesitate to say we strictly fit under it.
Despite deviating from the norm, our sex life is very comfortable, though I believe MC could introduce a completely new dynamic.
My main hesitation regarding MC is whether the pros outweigh the cons; specifically, are the emotional rewards worth the maintenance of wearing a device?
If we decide to buy one, I’m leaning toward a CB-6000s. I’d love to hear from anyone with experience using this model: can it sway our opinion on hygiene and daily wear? Does it look completely obvious? Photos could really help clarify things.
I’ve been typing out these thoughts in my head for weeks, but finally found the courage at the bottom of a bottle to post. I know I’m among good company here, yet I still feel like everyone else might judge me if they read this. Society can be quite twisted sometimes. Cheers.