This girl is picking up the pace quickly

My boyfriend brought up the subject several months ago. I have to admit that I was a little reluctant at first. I got over this quickly the first time we played with it. Since then I did a little research on the topic and found lots of different views on the subject. Some keyholders only let their man out a couple times a year! I think that’s just crazy. I can’t imagine why a man would want to subject himself to that. Plus, I need action too! I’ve found that locking him up for a few days at a time has done wonders for our relationship. He is so attentive to my needs when he’s locked up that it’s amazing. The feeling of having that kind of control over my man is amazing. Girls, we all know what his package means to him. Knowing that he can’t pleasure himself or even touch it for that matter unless I let him is a HUGE turn on for me. I know he’s thinking about me all day and I love it! Of course it’s my choice weather to let him out every night or not. Sometimes I make him give me a massage, rub my feet, cook dinner, and go down on me for as long as I want! He would never say no or he knows I may not let him out. I usually do though because it makes me really horny to know he wants me that bad. The first time I left him in it over night was interesting. He was whining and begging me to come over and let him out. I wasn’t planning on going to his place that night so I thought it would be a good opportunity to see how he would handle it. I told him it was only one night and he could handle it. I mean come on, one night without an ****** wont kill him. He still begged and pleaded for me to unlock him. I told him if I hear another word about it I wont take it off for a week. That stopped the begging right away. Now it’s a rule in fact. If he ever asks to be let out it’s an automatic extra day no questions asked. I love the control! I have to say he’s still the man in the relationship in every way except I control his *******! It’s so fun to mess with his head now and then. I can’t let him expect me to be predictable. He never really knows when he’s getting let out. Usually I unlock it each night so we can fool around because I want sex. Although he wants to be let out badly each say, he knows it’s possible I wont be in the mood and he’ll have to stay in it. He wont ask me to take it off again though. Adding an extra day doesn’t sound like much but I know it drives him crazy! I needed to find a way to punishment him for bad behavior. Like staring at other girls or not paying enough attention to me. Keeping him locked up punishes me as well because I can’t have sex with him. This just wasn’t working for me so I took a new approach. Now when he’s bad I have come up with several ways to punish him. I have him do all the things I mentioned earlier, massage, foot rub, etc. Then when he’s all horny and about to explode, I hand cuff him before I take it off so he can’t even touch it!. It drives him crazy! I’ll take it off and just lightly tease him with my hand for a while. What a frustrating feeling that must be. After being locked up all day, finally released and then getting teased! I love to watch him squirm! If he’s really bad, I’ll hand cuff him, take it off and not even touch him for while. One time I even left him that way and went to the market! It drove him nuts!. This led me to start thinking of new ways to tease him. Now he knows better and always seems to be on his best behavior. The other day I saw that he was looking at **** on his computer. I didn’t really care but I thought it was a good opportunity to mess with him a bit. This time I hand cuffed him to the shower rod before I took the CB off. He got hard as soon as it came off. I put a wash cloth on his penis and told him if it wasn’t on there when I came back that I would lock him up again until the next day. This forced him to keep an erection until I came back not even knowing how long I would be gone. Needless to say he didn’t last the half hour i was gone. I came back to find the wash cloth on the floor. I gave him a choice. He could have sex with me that night but afterwords he gets locked up again right away for 3 days minimum, or I could lock him up right now and let him out tomorrow. Naturally he opted for the sex. Even though he was sure I would leave him in it for 3 days, it’s still up to me when to let him out. We have quite a bit of fun playing with chastity even though we don’t practice it 24/7. Sometimes a week might go by without him being locked up but he knows to be on his best behavior or ill tell him to put it on at any time. I’ve even called him out of the blue before and told him to put it on. He knows he better do what he’s told or I could leave him in it for days. I even make him send me pictures of it so I know it’s on and he’s not sneaking around. I had to start doing this when I called him in the morning and told him to lock it up and he said ok. I stopped by his place to grab something and saw it sitting on the nightstand! I called him at work to check on him and tease him a little like I always do when he’s locked up. He played along like nothing was wrong! I couldn’t let this go unpunished. When we got together after work for a few drinks I knew he stopped home and put it on. Over drinks I let him know what I knew. The look on his face was priceless! Although he knew not to ask me when I was going to release him he asked what now. I said you’ll just have to wait and see. That night I didn’t mention it at all and didn’t take it off. In fact I didn’t even bring the key with me so I wasn’t tempted. I know he was going crazy wondering what I was up to. So the next day he got his punishment. After tons of foreplay and teasing I handcuffed him and told him we could have sex. He looked puzzled. I said we could have sex but he wasn’t allowed to ***. If he did then I would put it back on for a week at least. He was inside me for all of a minute before he had to stop! I was so turned on with him being that close but i had to follow through. He got locked back up as soon as he calmed down. (ice helps with this i found out). Now he had no idea when I would let him out again. I partially blame myself for his wrong doings. It must be hard for a guy to give up that much control. Now I make sure to lock it myself. If I’m not there and I ask him to do it, he better send me a picture right away to prove it and I check up on him throught the day. He’s the one that brought up wearing a chastity device in the first place so he must enjoy it. I have come to find out that I need to be strict. It was hard to do at first, I thought he would get mad at me or something. Ultimately he’s turned on by giving up control of his ******* so it’s my job to see to it that it really is my call and there’s nothing he can do about it. I also have to be fair. We both have a high sex drive so anything longer than a few days I feel wouldn’t be fun for him anymore and of course me either. But he has to know that i’m in control and he better not **** around!.