Tantric Intimacy (Does Chastity offer control similar to the Male Orgasm?)

An intriguing post I came across in Dr. Laura Berman’s Passion Files *Doesn’t this sound exactly like what couples are doing with Male Chastity???

• Jimi123 Welcome to today’s edition of the Passion Files, an email newsletter from America’s top expert on female sexual health. The Joy of Tantric Sex Sometimes, you simply want sex to last longer. The average woman needs 20 to 30 minutes of sexual activity to reach orgasm; the average man, five to ten minutes. Getting tantric can help bridge that gap when seeking satisfaction. Tantric sex (sometimes called sexual yoga) suggests our sexual energy is a powerhouse, full of potential for deepening intimacy and sensuality. While women are assumed to be multiorgasmic and capable of continued sexual activity after orgasm, men lose their sexual energy after ejaculation. (You’re thinking, yeah, tell me about it.) Pure tantric sex is about learning to keep the energy stoking for a better connection, and it can do wonders for your sex life. That means delaying ejaculation: The tantric orgasm is meant to be “lived” instead of released. In plain English, the idea is for him to hold out as long as possible and — if you’re lucky — deliver you to one or more orgasms in the process. To start, do some soul-gazing. Stare into each other’s eyes, pay attention to each other’s breathing, and get in sync. When you begin touching sexually, focus on the sensations of the moment. Maintain a slower rhythm of movement, or sometimes no movement. All the while, you and your partner should be tuned into your connection with each other — physically, emotionally, and especially spiritually. He should pull back when he feels the imminent urge to climax. Then, when the moment feels right and the stars have aligned, he can let himself go. Trust me — he’ll thank you for the wait.